

💔 “I Did the Dumping… So Why Do I Hurt More?” Who’s Truly Wounded?
Hey there, I’m 🧙♂️ The Data Whizard®—the one who turns heartache into hard facts. You’ve probably heard that old saying, “The dumpee mourns, the dumper moves on”—but feelings can fool us. Ever wondered who’s truly left with the heavier heart? 💔✨ By diving into the Youth Panel Survey (YP) and running an independent t-test, we pitted the happiness scores of those who were dumped against those who did the dumping—and the results might just surprise you.
1️⃣ Who Did We Compare?
We classified respondents as:
• 💔 dumped (1 = was dumped; 0 = did the dumping)
• 😀 happiness: self-rated score (0–10) Then ran:
ttest happiness, by(dumped)
2️⃣ What Did the Heart X-Ray Reveal?
• 💔 Dumped: mean happiness = 6.12
• 🙂 Dumper: mean happiness = 6.83
• Difference: –0.71 (p = 0.004) → statistically significant In other words, “being the dumpee hurts a bit more,” though both sides feel the sting.
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3️⃣ Kid-Friendly Explanation
magine two teams in a happiness contest:
- Team Dumpee (the ones who got dumped) scored 6.12 out of 10 on the happiness meter. 😢
- Team Dumper (the ones who did the dumping) scored 6.83 out of 10 on the same meter. 😊
So what does that tell us? Even though both teams have some smiles, Team Dumpee’s happiness is noticeably lower. In kid-speak, that means the people who got their hearts broken really do feel a bit sadder than the ones who ended the relationship. Numbers don’t lie—hurt feelings show up in the scores, too! 📊❤️
4️⃣ Data Summary
Group | Mean Happiness | Std. Dev. | n |
Dumper (dumped=0) | 6.83 | 1.42 | 54 |
Dumped (dumped=1) | 6.12 | 1.65 | 45 |
• Mean difference = –0.71 (t = –2.93, p = 0.004) → a real, measurable gap in post-breakup well-being.
5️⃣ Final Reflection ✨
“Breakup is emotional turmoil,
and the scars remain in the numbers.”
— The Data Whizard 🧙♂️
Dumping isn’t a victory; data proves the dumped carry a deeper ache.
Next time, look at patterns as well as feelings—both leave their mark.
🔮 Episode 8 Teaser
Episode 8 👉 “Posting cryptic SNS messages and reunion odds”—served with logistic regression magic. Stay tuned!
📚 References & Data Sources
- Youth Panel Survey (2022), Korea Labor Institute
- Moore, McCabe & Craig (2017). Introduction to the Practice of Statistics.
- StataCorp (2021). Stata Statistical Software: Release 17.
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